Domestic abuse

What is domestic abuse?

Domestic abuse includes many different types of behaviour. It is not just carried out by men against female partners; it affects women, men and children. Domestic abuse can happen between any relationship within the home and family.

Domestic abuse and violence does not refer only to a physical attack. Selwood Housing uses the Home Office definition of domestic abuse, “Any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over, who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This can encompass, but is not limited to, the following types of abuse:

  • psychological
  • physical
  • sexual
  • financial
  • emotional.

 

Our approach to domestic abuse

The neighbourhood team at Selwood Housing will make every effort to support customers who are experiencing domestic abuse. This will often mean working with and making referrals to specialist agencies.

Quite often there may not be a simple tenancy-based solution to the situation. We will be clear with victims about this and what all their options are. This may mean you are directed to the local authority for immediate rehousing. We will remain in touch with you until the matter is resolved.

We have partnered with local authorities to ensure a united response to domestic violence. These include Wiltshire Council, Bath & North East Somerset Council, and Somerset Council.

FAQs

What can I do if I need urgent police help through the 999 service but can't speak?

If you’re in an emergency situation and need police help but can’t speak, ‘Make Yourself Heard’ lets the 999 operator know your call is genuine. Read the Silent Solution guide for more information.

What can I do if I need urgent police help through the 999 service but I am deaf or can't use the phone?

If you are deaf or can’t use a phone, you can register with the emergencySMS. Text REGISTER to 999. You will get a text which tells you what to do next. Do this when it is safe so you can text when you are in danger.

I don't have access to a phone and am closely watched. What can I do?

Safe Spaces UK is working with Boots UK, Morrisons, Superdrug and Well pharmacies, TSB banks and independent pharmacies across the UK to provide Safe Spaces in their consultation rooms for people experiencing domestic abuse. Once you are inside, specialist domestic abuse support information will be available for you to access.

 

How to access a Safe Space

  • Walk into any participating pharmacy in the UK.
  • Ask at the healthcare counter to use their Safe Space.
  • A pharmacist will show you to the Safe Space which will be the consultancy room.
  • Once inside you will find displayed specialist domestic abuse support information for you to access to make that call or access Bright Sky safely.

To find a Safe Space in a pharmacy near you click here.

 

Action Needed Immediately

 

If you are experiencing domestic abuse and need immediate help ask for ‘ANI’ in a participating pharmacy. ‘ANI’ stands for Action Needed Immediately. If a pharmacy has the ‘Ask for ANI’ logo on display, it means they’re ready to help. They will offer you a private space, provide a phone and ask if you need support from the police or other domestic abuse support services.

I need to leave my home due to the violence. Where can I go?

You should contact your local authority as they have a duty to provide temporary housing for people who are homeless.

What is a refuge?

A refuge is a safe place for women, men and children who are unable to stay safely in their homes because they are experiencing abuse, or are at risk of abuse from a partner, former partner or family member. You can stay there as long as you need, anywhere from a few days to several months.

I'm a man suffering from domestic abuse. Where can I get advice from?

The Men’s Advice Line run by Respect is a confidential helpline specifically for male victims.
Tel: 0808 801 0327
Email: info@mensadviceline.org.uk

What if I am the perpetrator of the abuse or I know of someone who is abusing their partner. Who can I contact?

If you are concerned about your behaviour or the behaviour of someone you know, there is support available. The Respect Phoneline is an anonymous and confidential helpline for men and women who are abusing their partners and families.

It is open Monday to Friday 9am to 8pm. The helpline also takes calls from partners or ex-partners, friends and relatives who are concerned about perpetrators.

Telephone: 0808 802 4040

A webchat service is available Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays from 10am to 11am and from 3pm to 4pm.

What if I am a child who is suffering from domestic abuse?

In an emergency, you should ring 999 and ask for the Police. Otherwise, you should ring Childline. Telephone 0800 1111.

What if I am an adult who is concerned about a child who is or may be suffering from domestic abuse?

In an emergency, you should ring 999 and ask for the Police. Otherwise, you should ring the NSPCC on 0808 800 5000 or report any concerns directly to Children’s Social Services for the relevant local authority.

What is a Multi-Agency Risk Assessment Conference (MARAC)?

A MARAC is a meeting where information is shared on the highest risk domestic abuse cases between representatives of local police, health, child protection, housing practitioners, Independent Domestic Violence Advisors (IDVAs), probation and other specialists from the statutory and voluntary sectors. After sharing all relevant information they have about a victim, the representatives discuss options for increasing the safety of the victim and turn these into a coordinated action plan.

What does DASH stand for?

The introduction of the new Domestic Abuse, Stalking and Harassment and Honour Based Violence (DASH 2009) Risk Identification, Assessment and Management Model, means that all police services, and many partner agencies across the UK, will be using a common checklist for identifying and assessing risk which will save lives.

Although my abusive partner has left the property I still don't feel safe in my home, but I don't want to leave. What can I do?

There are a number of legal remedies to stop your abuser from coming back to the property. There is also help to make your property more secure, which could include assistance from the local authority, in Wiltshire support from the Bobby Van, or help from your landlord.

What is the Sanctuary Scheme?

A Sanctuary Scheme is a multi-agency victim-centred initiative that aims to enable households at risk of violence to remain safely in their own homes by installing a ‘Sanctuary’ in the home and through the provision of support to the household.

I left my home but I want to go back there, however my violent partner is still living there. What can I do?

There are several legal remedies available to you to help you go back to your property and exclude your abusive partner. You should seek legal advice about these to see which is best for you in the circumstances.

As my landlord, can you transfer the tenancy of the property into my sole name?

We do not have the legal authority to do this without a court order.

What can we do to help?

Call us in confidence – If you are suffering from domestic abuse and would like to speak to a neighbourhood manager in confidence. All reports of domestic abuse will be acknowledged within 24 hours.

Always call 999 if it’s an emergency or you’re in immediate danger.

Call us on 01225 715 715

 

Other organisations that can help

 

Bath & North East Somerset Council

The council can source safe housing for victims of domestic abuse and provide emergency rehousing.

Call 01225 396296 for safe housing
Call 01454615615 for emergency rehousing.
Website: B&NES Domestic Violence & Abuse

 

Childline

Offers free confidential advice and support to persons under 18 years of age whatever their worry and whenever they need help.

Call 0800 1111
Website: Childline.co.uk

 

Citizens Advice

Provide advice to assist people with legal, debt, consumer, housing and other problems in the UK.

Call 0345 404506
Website: citizensadvice.org.uk

 

FearFree (Wiltshire)

Support service for victims of domestic abuse in Southwest England (weekdays).

Call 01225 775276
Website: fearfree.org.uk

 

FearLess Support Service

Call 01225 775 276
Email: helpdesk@splitz.org
FearLess website

 

Galop

Provide advice and support for people who identify as LGBT+ and are experiencing domestic abuse.

Call 0800 999 5428
Website: galop.org.uk

 

Housing Solutions

Emergency housing & housing options for those in crisis due to domestic violence.
Call: 01225 718 005 (Trowbridge office), 01249 706 666 (Chippenham office) or 01722 434 233 (Salisbury office)
Email: homeless@wiltshire.gov.uk
Housing Solutions website

 

National Centre for Domestic Violence

Call 08009 702 070
Text ‘NCDV’ to 60777
Email: office@ncdv.org.uk
Website: National Centre for Domestic Violence website

 

National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC)

Works to prevent abuse, help rebuild children’s lives and support families, and who adults can contact if they are worried about a child.

Call 0808 800 5000
Website: nspcc.org.uk

 

Police

If you are in immediate danger or need to report a crime in progress: 999
Report a crime: 101

Website: police.uk

 

Somerset Council

Housing advice for people affected by domestic abuse

Call 0800 69 49 999
Website: housing advice for people affected by domestic abuse

 

Refuge

Support service which includes providing temporary emergency accommodation for women and children fleeing domestic abuse.

Call 0808 200 0247
Website: Refuge.org.uk

 

Respect

An anonymous and confidential helpline for men and women who are abusing their partners and families. They also take calls from partners or ex-partners, friends and relatives who are concerned about perpetrators.

Call 0808 802 4040
Website: Respect.org.uk

 

Victim Support Wiltshire

Call 0808 281 0113
Victim Support Wiltshire website

 

Wiltshire Council

Housing options for people affected by domestic abuse.

Call 0300 456 0106
Website: Wiltshire Council domestic abuse

 

Women’s Aid

Call 08082 000 247
Email: helpline@womensaid.org.uk
Women’s Aid website

Understanding legal remedies

There are certain legal remedies can be considered in domestic abuse cases. Find out more about each of these below.

Clare’s Law

The Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (DVDS), also known as ‘Clare’s Law’, allows police to disclose to individuals the details of their partner’s abusive past in order that they can make an informed decision about their situation.

Domestic Violence Protection Notices

A Domestic Violence Protection Notice (DVPN) is served by the police on perpetrators of domestic abuse and provides emergency protection for victims. It must be presented to a magistrates’ court for approval within 48 hours. It is the first step to acquiring a Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVPO). A DVPN places conditions on a perpetrator which may include:

  • stopping him/her from entering and being within a certain distance of the victim’s home
  • stopping him/her from making the other person leave or excluding them from their home
  • requiring him/her to leave the victim’s home.
Domestic Violence Protection Orders

If the magistrates agree, the prohibitions stated within the Domestic Violence Protection Notice can continue for between 14 to 28 days in the form of a Domestic Violence Protection Order.

Injunctions

A judicial order restraining a person from beginning or continuing an action threatening or invading the legal right of another, or compelling a person to carry out a certain act. For example, if someone is worried that their ex-partner or spouse will end the tenancy without their consent, they can apply to the court for an injunction to stop them giving notice to end the tenancy. If the order is breached, the police can arrest that person immediately. You do not have to tell the person you want protection from that you’re applying for an injunction, in which case it’s known as a ‘without notice’ or ‘ex-parte’ application. If an order is granted the abuser will have to be told about your application after the order has been issued.

Non-Molestation Order

A non-molestation order is a type of injunction which can protect someone from violence or harassment. It can be obtained against someone who has been physically violent or against someone who is harassing, intimidating or pestering someone.

Occupation Order

Occupation orders are orders made by the courts to enforce, declare or restrict rights to occupy the matrimonial home. They are only a short-term solution and will not affect what happens to the property in the final settlement.

Restraining Order

This is a court order in relation to a criminal case alleging domestic abuse, whether or not the case is upheld. It is made when there is a need to protect a person from harassment or conduct that will put them in fear of violence. It imposes prohibitions on the perpetrator and may cover a range of behaviours, e.g. excluding a person from a geographical area, from contacting specific people, or behaving in a particular way. It lasts for one year or until it is revoked. It can be renewed for one year at a time if the court believes that the victim is still in danger. A person breaching a restraining order can be arrested and charged.

Transfer of Property Order

A transfer of property order is where a court orders that a sole or joint tenancy be transferred to a spouse or partner.

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